Finding A Role That Works – Part 1

As a pastor, in every church where you serve, one of your most important tasks is to find a role that works. That may sound easy. But, most ministers will admit in private that they continue to struggle with that assignment. If I may, in the next few blog posts, I would like to share some of my own experiences in finding a role that works.

Soon after taking my first job, I discovered that, cursed as I am with an inquisitive mind and an open mouth, adjusting to a role as an assistant pastor was not going to prove easy for me.

To ask probing questions of the senior minister is to threaten his spiritual leadership. To brainstorm new ideas with other members of the congregation is to be suspected of playing the traitor’s role.

If you function in a manner that smacks of excellence—preaching well, ministering with love, and consequently developing loyalty among the people—you arouse jealousy. On the other hand, if you perform inadequately—the youth group doesn’t grow, or the summer Vacation Bible School is a flop—you are quickly labeled a sluggard. In short, no matter how you perform, you really can’t win.

Both churches with which I worked as an assistant pastor would be considered successful by normal standards. The first, a suburban parish of approximately 1,000 on Sunday morning, was made up of delightful people. On the whole they were attractive, interesting, and cultured. Together they represented tremendous potential.

Looking back in analysis, I feel they were involved in peripheral activities and had no conscious attitude of their real spiritual destiny. They simply had no vision of what God could do through them as a group. Great amounts of their efforts went into the church building itself.

Typical was one board meeting where these men, top executives in their professions, spent a long period of time deciding whether to purchase rubber floor runners or cocoa mats for the entrances in preparation for the coming winter season.

Can you begin to see the dilemma? How does a conscientious pastor fit into this kind of a church? In the next few blog posts, I will continue to address the issue of finding a role that works. I invite you to come back to this blog and read more.

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Last Sunday

This past weekend I was away traveling on business. On Sunday night my wife picked me up at Midway Airport and we got home somewhere between 11:30 and midnight. She had taken a non-Christian friend to church with her. I had made it a point to attend church in the city where I was visiting.

In the car she asked about the sermon I heard and I had to confess that I couldn’t remember it all that well. So the next day I looked up the Psalm on which it was based and reread the text. The response it called for was one of praise, and I do recall the preacher saying that this was how the passage started and ended. He also explained the difference between the Hebrew word for bowing your knee as contrasted to the one that meant raising your hands in praise. But how those actions should mark my life wasn’t explained, and I found the message to be more academic than it was practical and motivational.

To be fair, I certainly got the impression that this pastor not only appreciated nature, but almost relished it. But I wouldn’t say that his mood was all that contagious, because the sermon never got to the place where God was enthusiastically praised for his creation as He is in the psalm.

“You have been going hard” my gracious wife told me. “Maybe you were tired?”

“Not really” I responded. I had a good night’s sleep on Saturday, I had time for prayer on Sunday morning, and, as usual, I went to church open to what the Lord might say to me. And, He did touch me through the music. But, this given Sunday the sermon just didn’t connect with where I was.

I believe it’s best to be honest about our evaluation of messages. Not overly critical, but honest. Too often we mouth nice things because we think it’s Christian to do so. But, if my wife had taken her non-Christian friend to the service I attended, I’m sure she would have come away with feelings similar to and probably stronger than mine.

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Sunday’s coming. Do you have your sermon ready? Is it relevant? Will it effectively motivate your congregation to walk more in step with the Master? What about that Sermon Series you’ve been thinking about? Or, what will you preach for your Easter Sermon, your Advent Sermon, your Christmas Sermon? David Mains and Mainstay Ministries can help you learn how to create better Bible Sermons and how to turn Sermon Ideas into Sermon Outlines, and then into effective, meaningful Sunday Sermons. Just click here to visit David Mains’ website.

With the Advent Celebration: “Seasoning the Season,” you can help your congregation season their Christmas traditions with the flavor of Christ. More than simply helping them to remember that “Jesus is the reason for the season,” you can encourage people to focus on Christ in the very traditions that have become part of our celebration of Christmas: decorating our homes, conveying Christmas greetings, giving and receiving gifts, gathering with family and friends, entering the new year with goals. Click here to see a Special Limited-Time Package Offer.

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Concern For Churches

I first began to be concerned about churches years ago while working as a Youth for Christ director. Being continually involved in the conversion and spiritual growth of teens, I found great difficulty in transferring that fresh vitality to the latency of the average church.

Only a few of the many pastors I knew mirrored the freedom, joy, and spiritual optimism I had come to associate with fellow YFC workers. Furthermore, I observed that evangelistic works were siphoning off a majority of the qualified seminary graduates, only serving to increase the desperate situation.

It was a vicious cycle—an active, progressive, faith-inspired evangelism under well-qualified leadership unsuccessfully trying to feed into a dormant, reactionary, doubt-filled leaderless ecclesiasm, only to have converts soon leave the church and search elsewhere for the vibrancy they had originally experienced.

It became clear to me that creative leadership would have to be channeled back into local congregations if total renewal was ever going to be experienced. But, how could that happen?

It was as a result of such reasoning that I eventually committed myself to become the pastor of a local congregation. As I write this, I wonder aloud, “What drew you to become a pastor?” Certainly you sensed a call from God. But, what factors confirmed that call? And, more importantly, what factors continue to confirm that call today?

I invite you to continue exploring how to strength that sense of call. In these blog posts and in the other outstretched arms of Mainstay Ministries, I want to come alongside you and bolster your efforts to serve Christ and His Kingdom.

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With the Advent Celebration: “Seasoning the Season,” you can help your congregation season their Christmas traditions with the flavor of Christ. More than simply helping them to remember that “Jesus is the reason for the season,” you can encourage people to focus on Christ in the very traditions that have become part of our celebration of Christmas: decorating our homes, conveying Christmas greetings, giving and receiving gifts, gathering with family and friends, entering the new year with goals. Click here to see a Special Limited-Time Package Offer.

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Beginning A New Work

“If you are holding your own in a city church, it’s a miracle. If you are slowly dropping behind, God is blessing. But if you begin a new work you are a fool.”

There was no mistaking the intent of this minister’s words. His analysis was factual and his advice sound. No precedent existed for beginning a new church in the inner-city, and there were certainly no guarantees of success. Northing is more difficult to explain reasonably than the unreasonably leading of God. And, there was no convincing this friend that our project plans were anything but audacious.

Thus began a new adventure for me and for a core group of people who believed that God was leading us to begin a new work in the heart of downtown Chicago. I’m not sure I can claim that the anticipated step was totally one of faith. At the time it seemed to be the only option. I was employed by a large Chicago church as assistant pastor. A new head minister had been called. In accord with the custom, the staff members were considering tendering resignations and locating other positions. In a way I was glad, due to the considerable misgivings I was experiencing in this, my second job in the traditional church.

My frustrations had reached the point where it was not uncommon for me to endure tension headaches on Saturday afternoon in anticipation of the Sunday services. Typically, I would not find relief until after a good night’s sleep following the Sunday evening meeting. Monday and the first half of Tuesday were fine. But, the pressure soon returned with the approaching midweek service.

What about you? Is your ministry causing you to experience extraordinary stress? Are the pressures of serving your local congregation on the increase? Perhaps through this blog I can offer you some suggestions from my own experience that will point you in a new direction. At least that’s my prayer.

You see, I have heard God’s call in these last years of my life on this earth. I have responded to Him and devoted my efforts to helping pastors become all God wants them to be. I urge you to stay with me for a while and see if God causes my words to resonate in the core of your being. Maybe, just maybe, God will speak to you through my thoughts.

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With the Advent Celebration: “Seasoning the Season,” you can help your congregation season their Christmas traditions with the flavor of Christ. More than simply helping them to remember that “Jesus is the reason for the season,” you can encourage people to focus on Christ in the very traditions that have become part of our celebration of Christmas: decorating our homes, conveying Christmas greetings, giving and receiving gifts, gathering with family and friends, entering the new year with goals. Click here to see a Special Limited-Time Package Offer.

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