8 Survival Skills for Changing Times – Part 6-9

Learning Our Limits – Part 9: Readings – 1

Gandhi’s spinning wheel was his center of gravity in life. It was the great leveler in his human experience. When he returned from the great public moments in his life, the spinning-wheel experience restored him to his proper sense of proportion, so that he was not falsely swelled with pride due to the cheers of the people. When he withdrew from the moments of encounter with kings and government leaders, he was not tempted to think of himself in some inflated fashion when he moved to the work of the wheel.

The spinning wheel was always a reminder to Gandhi of who he was and what the practical things in life were all about. In engaging in this regular exercise, he was resisting all the forces of his public world that tried to distort who he knew himself to be.

Gandhi was by no means a Christian, but what he was doing at the wheel is an indispensable lesson for any healthy Christian. For he shows us what every man or woman who wants to move in a public world without being pressed into its mold needs to do. We, too, need the spinning-wheel experience—the ordering of our private worlds so that they are constantly restructured in strength and vitality.

As Thomas Kelly says, “We are trying to be several selves at once, without all our selves being organized by a single, mastering Life within us.” Again he says, “Life is meant to be lived from a Center, a divine Center. Each one of us can live such a life of amazing power and peace and serenity, of integration and confidence and simplified multiplicity, on one condition—that is, if we really want to.”

And that is the condition with which we must finally deal. Do we really want order within our private worlds? Again, do we want it?

If it is true that actions speak louder than words, it would appear that the average Christian does not really seek an ordered private world as a top priority. It would seem that we prefer to find our human effectiveness through busyness, frantic programming, material accumulation, and rushing to various conferences, seminars, film series, and special speakers.

In short, we try to bring order to the inner world by beginning with activity in the outer one. This is exactly the opposite of what the Bible teaches us, what the great saints have shown us, and what our dismal spiritual experiences regularly prove to us.

Somewhere John Wesley is quoted as saying of life in his public world, “Though I am always in haste, I am never in a hurry, because I never undertake more work than I can go through with calmness of spirit.”

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Ordering Your Private World, Gordon MacDonald, Oliver Nelson, pages 178-179.

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Sunday’s coming. Do you have your sermon ready? Is it relevant? Will it effectively motivate your congregation to walk more in step with the Master? What about that Sermon Series you’ve been thinking about?

Or, if you’re someone who plans well ahead, have you asked yourself what you will preach for your Easter Sermon, your Advent Sermon, your Christmas Sermon?

David Mains and Mainstay Ministries can help. We offer a wide variety of Sermon Starters and Full Sermons that will give you Sermon Ideas to help you prepare for regular Saturday or Sunday sermons, Mid-week Bible Sermons, and Sermons for special occasions.

We also offer assistance as you create Topical Sermons, Sermons Series, and sermons for special times of the year. We have resources available to help you with Advent Celebrations, Advent Sermons, Christmas Sermons, Easter Sunday Sermons, Patriotic Sermons, and more.

For more information on how to create better Bible Sermons and how to turn Sermon Ideas into Sermon Outlines, and then into effective, meaningful Sunday Sermons, please click here to visit David Mains’ website.

You will also find a variety of resources for pastors and congregations at the Mainstay Ministries website. Just click here.

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8 Survival Skills for Changing Times – Part 6-8

Learning Our Limits – Part 8: For Discussion and Reflection

  1. What are ways to differentiate between a challenge the Lord has set before you and a request that would violate your limits?
  2. Would people say you are someone who knows how to minister but not how to be ministered to? Why or why not?
  3. It is inevitable that some of our learning about limits will come through trial and error. What is good and what is bad about this method?
  4. Name various reasons pastors might sometimes be insensitive to the limits of their parishoners.
  5. When might learning your limits literally be a survival skill?
  6. What are some passages in the Bible that deal with the matter of learning our limits? (Example: Exodus 18)

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Sunday’s coming. Do you have your sermon ready? Is it relevant? Will it effectively motivate your congregation to walk more in step with the Master? What about that Sermon Series you’ve been thinking about?

Or, if you’re someone who plans well ahead, have you asked yourself what you will preach for your Easter Sermon, your Advent Sermon, your Christmas Sermon?

David Mains and Mainstay Ministries can help. We offer a wide variety of Sermon Starters and Full Sermons that will give you Sermon Ideas to help you prepare for regular Saturday or Sunday sermons, Mid-week Bible Sermons, and Sermons for special occasions.

We also offer assistance as you create Topical Sermons, Sermons Series, and sermons for special times of the year. We have resources available to help you with Advent Celebrations, Advent Sermons, Christmas Sermons, Easter Sunday Sermons, Patriotic Sermons, and more.

For more information on how to create better Bible Sermons and how to turn Sermon Ideas into Sermon Outlines, and then into effective, meaningful Sunday Sermons, please click here to visit David Mains’ website.

You will also find a variety of resources for pastors and congregations at the Mainstay Ministries website. Just click here.

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A Good Read – Part 12: Potential Language-use Problems

I appreciate how practical Dr. Lori Carrell is in her new book Preaching That Matters. Here’s a short section on verbal clutter.

As you preach, avoid these items that clutter your speaking:

  • Clichés—trite, overused phrasesSome clichés have been around for a long time (“In today’s society…”) while others come and go for brief periods of time (“At the end of the day…”). Nearly any combination of words can become meaningless distractions if overused. In one church, the pastor uses the following “go to” terms nearly every Sunday: “flesh out” and “unpack” (what he’ll do with the passage during the sermon) and “come alongside” (what listeners should do to care for one another, the standard “application” component of the sermon). Language is replete with intriguing options. Why default to a cliché?
  • Non-descriptive modifiers (such as very, most, just, definitely, actually, and literally)Precise nouns and verbs can often stand alone, though adjectives and adverbs may aid meaning. For example, note the difference between an “innovative theological idea” and a “preposterous theological idea,” but the lack of additional meaning created with the usage of this non-descriptive modifier: “a very innovative theological idea.” Often these non-descriptive modifiers are inserted when volume or inflection could communicate the intended emphasis (“an innovative theological idea”). Currently, a word commonly causing meaningless clutter in church contexts is “just.”

    I just think…
    I just want to praise you…
    I just feel…
    I just want to pray for…

    Another in-vogue vacuous term is “actually”; for example, “Jesus actually walked on water” or “These missionaries actually flew to a remote airstrip in Ecuador.”

  • Flabby Phrases—using multiple words when only one or two are necessaryFlabby: “The reason why I think this plan will work is because…”
    Leaner: “This plan will work because…”

    Flabby: “Personally, in my opinion, I don’t really think…”
    Leaner: “I don’t think…”

    Flabby: “At this point in time…”
    Leaner: “Now…”

    Flabby: “Courageous, brave, and heroic martyrs…”
    Leaner: “Heroic martyrs…”

    Flabby: “Progress in its growth…”
    Leaner: “Grow…”

  • Vocal Filters—making sounds or saying words or pauses such as “um,” “uh,” “like,” or “you know,” instead of allowing the silence

As you continue to work on [increasing] the power of your language usage in preaching, eliminate the clutter.

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Sunday’s coming. Do you have your sermon ready? Is it relevant? Will it effectively motivate your congregation to walk more in step with the Master? What about that Sermon Series you’ve been thinking about?

Or, if you’re someone who plans well ahead, have you asked yourself what you will preach for your Easter Sermon, your Advent Sermon, your Christmas Sermon?

David Mains and Mainstay Ministries can help. We offer a wide variety of Sermon Starters and Full Sermons that will give you Sermon Ideas to help you prepare for regular Saturday or Sunday sermons, Mid-week Bible Sermons, and Sermons for special occasions.

We also offer assistance as you create Topical Sermons, Sermons Series, and sermons for special times of the year. We have resources available to help you with Advent Celebrations, Advent Sermons, Christmas Sermons, Easter Sunday Sermons, Patriotic Sermons, and more.

For more information on how to create better Bible Sermons and how to turn Sermon Ideas into Sermon Outlines, and then into effective, meaningful Sunday Sermons, please click here to visit David Mains’ website.

You will also find a variety of resources for pastors and congregations at the Mainstay Ministries website. Just click here.

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8 Survival Skills for Changing Times – Part 6-7

Learning Our Limits – Part 7: Seek God’s Will (continued…)

 I know Christians with a servant mind-set who know that their Master can give tough assignments. But they seem unfamiliar with the fact that He also occasionally likes to reach out in special ways and affirm those who selflessly serve Him.

Don’t confuse what I’m saying with the message of those who preach that following Christ means living the good life: owning several houses that rival palaces, driving luxury cars (plural), wearing the finest clothes, and eating out all the time at gourmet restaurants.

What I’m saying is that occasionally God will say to those on the front lines, “Take a break and enjoy a surprise I have for you. I’ve arranged for one of My servants to open his summer home for you and provide a nice car for you to drive. He’ll make available what would seem to cost you a year’s salary if you tried to do it on your own, but it’s a gift. Enjoy it.”

Some people don’t know how to receive such an offer and say thank You to God. They only know how to work until they drop. Maybe they won’t survive as long as their Master intended.

So one of the most important survival skills we can master is to learn our limits. We need to recognize when we’ve been pushing too hard for too long, when it’s time for a well-deserved break.

In this regard being Christlike occasionally involves letting the Father overwhelm us by showing His love through material gifts that could be as outlandish as an incredibly expensive bottle of perfume.

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Sunday’s coming. Do you have your sermon ready? Is it relevant? Will it effectively motivate your congregation to walk more in step with the Master? What about that Sermon Series you’ve been thinking about?

Or, if you’re someone who plans well ahead, have you asked yourself what you will preach for your Easter Sermon, your Advent Sermon, your Christmas Sermon?

David Mains and Mainstay Ministries can help. We offer a wide variety of Sermon Starters and Full Sermons that will give you Sermon Ideas to help you prepare for regular Saturday or Sunday sermons, Mid-week Bible Sermons, and Sermons for special occasions.

We also offer assistance as you create Topical Sermons, Sermons Series, and sermons for special times of the year. We have resources available to help you with Advent Celebrations, Advent Sermons, Christmas Sermons, Easter Sunday Sermons, Patriotic Sermons, and more.

For more information on how to create better Bible Sermons and how to turn Sermon Ideas into Sermon Outlines, and then into effective, meaningful Sunday Sermons, please click here to visit David Mains’ website.

You will also find a variety of resources for pastors and congregations at the Mainstay Ministries website. Just click here.

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